Happy Halloween indeed...

I like how when I am the victim I somehow turn into the "bad guy." When I am upset and lash back to defend myself I am in the wrong. But it's a-ok for me to be mistreated and then scolded for trying to do something about it.

and I like that for a second there, I actually started to blame myself. But unfortunately it's been more than a second because I've done it every time.

I am sick of being treated like the underdog. Not even my own boyfriend gives me the courtesy anymore.

If I can't defend myself and stand up for myself when I am mistreated, at work, at home, at the freaking bus stop!!! Then I am just going to walk away and leave it all behind me because I am so damn tired.

Common courtesy is all that I am asking for, just give it to me please?

oh yeah, Happy Halloween....

A tad frustraited.

I have always wanted to be a graphic designer. After the last year I have been more and more interested in Web design. I took a class in high school and I really liked it.

Me and my boyfriend are in the same html class together with two of his friends that wanted to take it as well.

I told the teacher that I wanted to go after the associates degree instead of just the certification. Now my boyfriend is saying that he wants to do the same thing.

What I am frustrated about is the fact that he is not much of a clingy, follower, has to do what my girlfriends doing kind of person. In fact he is the exact opposite. I am afraid that he might just dismiss the fact that that this is what I have been wanting to do and assume that I am the one being that way ( as it has happened in the past).

Puts a damper on my goals a little bit. But I have decided that it doesn't matter. He can do what ever he wants and me the same. If he doesn't like it then he can be the one to make a career change.

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I almost completely forgot what I was going to say here!

I was walking to the max the other day on my way to work and as usual my mind was running circles around reality.

I started thinking about my art work and pieces that I have started or not yet started that I would much rather being doing then heading to work. Then I was distracted by some little black birds taking a bath in a puddle.

It was adorable.

I then actually looked around me to see the color changing trees and it made me think about God. He created all of this around me and it has to be the most beautiful and creative artwork without comparison. And it made me wonder if art is some thing that only God can create.

Something that "artists" can only try to imitate.

Ooooo..

Sketch blog?

Just for fun?

Sound good?

'eah I am going to do it.

indecisivenessssss

I am so indecisive.

I cant stand apartment shopping and now as I have just recently found out I hate looking for an affordable but GOOD school.

Everything has pros and cons...

EVERYTHING!

Repetition

...What a nasty thing you are.

I am in an indescribable mood right now. Not sure how I am feeling, not sure what exactly that it is that I am thinking of. I just... am.

Life is so frustrating sometimes and I am not specifically talking about my own life, but more that it is frustrating watching people make the wrong choices. Especially people you are close to. Sometimes I wish I could sit them down and make all the choices for them and tell them, "this is real life, this how it's done." But I was not build strong enough to play God.

And then I wonder why. I sometimes view life like the game of Sims. We are all walking around almost mindless and God is controlling the clicks, but if that's the case then why do we have so much freedom. Why did he create us with free will. If he knows the outcome then what is the point? Are you telling me that we are doomed to fail? Or did God give us a real opportunity to surprise even him?

We are all so unique so amazing and yet we create our own habits that send us into nothingness. Our world is lazy. I blame video games and TV. I like it just as much as the next person but where have our goals gone to? What do we strive for anymore? Everyday the murder count goes up, everyday the crime rate grows, drop outs, suicides, theft, grows. We are destroying our own and it's frustrating. I also blame it on lack of responsibility and birth control. It all starts with people who should not be parents who become so.

Because one person who doesn't give a shit raising a child in the world today, who isn't going to give a shit.

lalalalaaaalalaaa

I am in class right now waiting for it to start. I wish that it was more days a week than just one because I really enjoy it.

I have been looking into other school and thinking about transferring. We'll seeeeeee....

Web Siiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiite

Hmm Had my second class today and I am disappointed that the teacher has already cancled next Wednesdays class. But the good news is, that he has asked us to make a basic website and I am pretty exited about that... although I am not sure what I am going to make it on.

So I had my first class today

We were 15 minuets late,
The Teacher was 30

But over all I loved the class. It's my fist class ever in college so it all feels like a huge deal to me.
I feel exited about something. That doesn't happen to often anymore.

I feel like hurting you...

I am upset right now with life and it's constant unfairness...

Today I got pulled into the managers office and as I was listening to what they were telling me I was literally in shock.

I have been having issues with the fact that I have been picking up extra slack at work for people who choose not to do it themselves. ( whom all will remain nameless)

Especially when the get credited for the work that I did!

And as for closing I for one like to get out on time, I hate staying until all hours of the night because people can't finish their own work, sometimes we have pig like customers that make it hard but most of the time this is not the case.

Basically I was told that even though one employee gives zero effort and another gives 400% as long as the work gets done that is all that matters. There is nothing that I myself can do about it but suck it up and do the other persons work...

Where is the fairness in that? What the Hell is wrong with this world? All I could ask myself all day is why am I even trying?

Why do I even care if I get these 5 projects that no one decided to help me with all day. It's OBVIOUSLY not that big of a deal, so I guess I just shouldn't get my self all worked up over it.

So I didn't do it.


Unfortunately I am not wound that way.

She also told me that I seem unhappy where I am at...

Not shit Sherlock...

I need to smile more they told me

It gets hard trying to fake it all the time...

It's getting bad

I am trying to hold out.

If I can just wait till the 21 of this month quitting will be justified.

But work among other things is starting to wear me down, I really hate my job because I have discovered that I really dislike people.

They are rude, pigheaded, liars, thieves, and just plain out stupid enough to make a slug look like a graduated student from Yale.

I have noticed that the more I am forced to be there the more irrational I start thinking.
My life just plain sucks right now, and I think that the only thing making me think strait is knowing how my choices will affect the people that love me and think of me (which to me right now doesn't seem like very many) and my faith in the fact that God has something better planed for me.

And above all I am a smarter person than that. I know there are other paths even though they are harder and well hidden.

I am not trying to scare you guys and I only really writing this because I am hoping that buy reading it over again It will help me think clearer.

So for those of you who care (and God of course),

thank you for saving my life.

The Frustration

I believe that not only you make up your life but the people who are in it as well.

People your close to like friends and family.

And sometimes things don't work out which causes a split in the seam of things

and in the end half of you starts to fade away in to memories of people who are no longer - they are already changed and are living lives without you.

...and now I only know them through photographs.

According to my quiz...

I can take on 21 5 year olds in a fight... Interesting.

I am pooped from work, ( and here we go I'm going to bitch about work again)

But I think that I have discovered what is that drives me so crazy when I am there.

I don't cope well with stupidity.

I believe that everyone was born equipped with common sense some people just don't use it enough to acknowledge it when it's smacking you in the face.

I am talking about majority of customers AND coworkers. ( Some of them Stupid AND Lazy! )

OHMIGAWSSHH...
I have one more moth to go, I really hope I will make it before I grab someone by the hair and start smacking their face into the check stand.

That is all.

.... Omg

So I was filling out some applications and I was looking for my tax info... And I found this purple disc which had been lost and forgotten. I had a small hunch of what might have been on it and too my surprise...
I was right.

It was a small collection of artwork that I had kept on a disc after school, of all of my first pictures I have ever photoshoped.

And Ladies and Gentlemen may I present to you my VERY First creation on adobe Photoshop,


I think that I can safely say that my talent has come a LONG way, I have to say that this picture is about 5 to 6 years old.

And when I opened the file,

It made me smile :)

Whhaaaatt?

I am upset, VERY upset.

I am not going to say why, but I am just angry.

Life is precious and people who disregard it just pisses me off.

Unfortunate events

I went to the hospital today with a group of my friends, to visit a good friend a coworker. I had a hard time looking at him. He seemed so positive, but I think that we all knew what was going on in the back of his mind.

A few days back he was in the car with mother, the light changed and as his mom drove out someone ran a red light and slammed into them, his mother died on impact. Whats really hard is the fact that his dad passed away almost three years ago.

The only positive thing that I keep telling myself is that she is in a better place and with her husband now.

In the hospital I kept having flashbacks back when I was a kid, staying behind in the hospital waiting for my dad to wake up.

And looking at this great kid who was laying there in pain knowing that he was broken not just physically but mentally broke my heart. He is a good guy and his mother was the sweetest women you would ever meet. I was having a hard time keeping tears back, so I pathetically left the room early

And I keep asking myself, Why to horrible things happen to the best of people?

Makes you realize how mortal you really are.

Blahhhhh

I always day dream about my life starting with, " once upon a time... " and getting swept off of my feet because quite frankly my life and current relationship are kind of on the rocks...

I suppose that it's nice to day dream about things but in the end it gets rather depressing knowing that there is no such thing, and certainly not for me. I feel like I'm just going in circles and trying to get out of it just ends with a door in my face and me going back to the same routine.

Sometimes my boyfriend frustrates me. Makes me feel like I'm not important, and not in the silly petty ways that I hear other girls whine about, but not enough to justify ending it in whimsical decision.

Then he does something for me that I wasn't expecting, something that actually requires him to go out of his way without my asking that is so thoughtful it makes me realize he's trying to say, "I love you babe, even if I have a hard time showing it all the time, I love you."

I love you too.

P.S. My 21 birthday last Thursday, he made it so wonderful

Disney made me cry :'(

So I was cleaning and I put it the "Little Mermaid" to have some back round noise. Then I put in disc two and watched the features, yadda yadda...

Then I watched the 7 min short story "The little Match Girl"

I got all teary eyed. It was so heart breaking. I can't believe Disney would have remade something so sad.

My 4th

So My 4th was pretty good. I had to wake up and go to work at 8am and I was off by 5...

And I bought sparklers!!
Me and Lance walk around the block (after our sparklers) and watched all the fire works.
It was pretty amazing.

Another rant about my job

So I am upset.

Every time I buy food because we have none at home it's always on my last break and I have to put the cold items in the fridge, well at anytime from 8:30 to 11:30 when I get off someone has already stolen it.

This is not ok people.

The first time it was a pack of soda for Lance because he wasn't feeling good and thats what he wanted. Someone stole it. That upset me off but I let it go. But when you start stealing my dinner almost every other night I'm gonna get pissed off.

It is no ok to steal my $10 bag of chicken that we were going to eat for dinner.

You guys are literally stealing the food from our table because when you take that then there is nothing for us to eat at home and we usually starve. I don't spend $300 to $400 dollars a month on food at that damn store for people to take it from me. I barely have enough money as it it.

I once again am going to bring it up only this time to my store director because this is wrong and if I had time with Lance to really go grocery shopping I would but we never have a day off together.

I am really disappointed in the people that I work with.


Vent #2

I have a nasty head cold for about the last 4 days. And I have been to work for all of them. I have to work 7 days is a row without a day off feeling like this. I have no voice, My nose is running and my ears are so plugged Everyone sounds like they are under water.

I don't want to call in because closers are short handed and that wouldn't be fair to them, so when I ask if I can come in later in the evening rather than work a full 9 hour shift don't bitch at me because I was originally going to call in sick today.

Catch me if I'm wrong but wouldn't it be better for me to come in later and help close than not come in at all?

I already feel sick why do you have to try and make me feel worse?